Having a Baby?

My husband and I are expecting our first baby, what can I do to help my dog adjust?

 

I think it is a great idea to practice on a dog before committing to a baby.  If you have raised your dog properly, introducing a baby will be easy.  If you have spoiled your dog, you will have some challenges. 

 

Changing the family pack dynamic by having a baby, moving, getting another dog, the death of a person or animal, or divorce can be upsetting to your pet.  Make the following adjustments early to help your dog accept your new baby in a positive way.   

 

1. Get your dog out of your bed and off the couch and do it soon.  The reason for this will become evident when your 80-pound lab jumps on the bed and lands on your 7-pound newborn. 
2. Practice obedience and manners
1. No jumping, nipping, barking (waking a baby makes mom crabby) 
2. Sit, stay, and down commands are mandatory
3. No pawing (dogs that use their paws to get attention will scratch delicate skin)
4. A "leave it" command is crucial (dogs like baby toys and diapers)
5. Place a baby blanket on the floor -- train your dog to stay off of it
3. Observe your dog around children
1. Does he startle to new sounds easily? (graduated exposure will reduce this behavior)
2. Train large dogs to 'down' when children approach
3. Seek professional help if your dog growls, nips, or seems uncomfortable around children
4. Put lotion on your new baby equipment and allow your dog to investigate
5. Turn on the new baby gadgets so your dog becomes familiar with the noise.  Some people play tapes of babies crying.
6. Role play with a doll and make the actions part of your routine
1. Practice walking your dog with the stroller
2. Use the baby carrier
3. Place the doll in the high chair, crib, and on the changing table
7. Create an emergency pet care plan for a nighttime delivery
8. After your baby is born, have your husband bring home a blanket with your new baby's smell and allow your dog to sniff.
9. The first month with a newborn is exhausting.  Try to fit in some solo time with your dog or hire a dog walker to help your pet release some energy.
10. Warning:  Your dog will love the taste of baby vomit and dirty diapers.

 

 

Written by Susan Jakobs:  Owner of Midwest Canine Academy, Member of the Association of Pet Dog Trainers, Director of Professional Service Dogs, Inc.,  Visit www.dogbuilders.com.